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It's a little too much past January 1st to call this a New Year's Resolution, but I've decided to make a change. I don't want to become a passive participant in my romantic life. I don't want my dating options to be restricted to the guys that are still optimistic enough to send a message; I might miss some good ones who are simply tired of being ignored and I can't blame them. I'd get tired of that too.
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Any sort of instant communication system will work best in this situation (text, phone, IM), but in case you've got a very attentive facebook user or diligent email checker, it can be just as useful. Generally, the fewer steps a woman must go through to send you a message along with the more private the medium is, the more effective the method of communication will be, hence why twitter (a very public forum) and why myspace (which has a extremely involved message-sending process) aren't the best forms of communication for skipping the very Meet Horny Sluts first date.
